Advaith as a Moderator for the Panel Discussion in Cisco

You must be wondering—how can a non‑speaking individual become a moderator? That was Cisco’s doubt too.  

Last week, Sarbani ma’am called me and told me about a panel discussion as part of Cisco’s autism awareness program. She asked me to join as a parent advocate, and the most exciting part was that Advaith (Addu) would be the moderator along with Aparna, an art‑based therapist he already knows well. I knew it would be difficult for him to handle his anxiety in a new environment, but I was not ready to give up on this opportunity. We decided to prepare him step by step, believing everything would be fine.  

Some of my husband’s friends at Cisco shared pictures of the hall where the program would happen. I showed those pictures to Addu and explained about the event. Then Aparna and I discussed how to plan it according to his comfort level. She suggested creating folders with different points, which I prepared and introduced to Addu as rehearsal. He was happy and excited.  

                              

The next day Aparna came home, and we were touched to see how connected and comfortable Addu was with her. She is such a good soul—welcoming, accepting, and always looking into his strengths. At home, Aparna did a rehearsal with us as the audience, and Addu was very comfortable. We planned everything according to the schedule.  

Even though Cisco arranged transportation, we chose to bring Advaith in our own car for his comfort. On the morning of the event, I explained everything again, and he was calm and regulated.     

                                                               

At Cisco, Addu did his job beautifully. Using the Avaz app, he moderated the panel with confidence and pride, sitting beside Aparna. First, he introduced himself, then invited all the panelists to the stage. He asked questions one by one and waited patiently for their responses. During his introduction, he explained to the audience that his helmet helps him manage anxiety. That moment touched everyone deeply.  

And here’s the part that made me most proud: while Addu was moderating, I was sitting as one of the panelists. Parent (me), professional (Sarbani Mallck), medical professional (Dr. Keerthana), and the VP of Cisco, Mr. Gaurav Ahluwalia, were the panelists. We discussed how we can all work together for the autism community. As usual, I shared some personal stories about how life changed after Addu’s autism diagnosis. Each time, the audience responded with claps. I was so proud to sit as a panelist because Addu was the moderator.  

Nearly 130 employees joined the live discussion, and everyone—including the VP—was keen to listen and participate. They were surprised and inspired to see how beautifully Addu moderated with grace and confidence.  

That day, we showed them that non‑speaking individuals can comprehend, communicate, and lead. More than anything, the program carried a powerful message:  

Every life has value.  

It was a great day—one filled with pride, hope, and the joy of inclusion.